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Patricia Ronzio

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Do you measure up to the media's version of how you should be?

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Magazines directed toward women are filled with teasers about weight loss, the “right” diet and life and body makeovers.

•    Lose Every Bulge: Flat Belly, Toned Legs, Great Butt!
•    Exactly What to Eat to Get Slim! Secret Weight-Loss Soup!
•    Feel Amazing 24/7: Burn More Calories, Boost Brainpower, Sleep like a Baby!

Magazines tend to exploit our inner concerns that we are not inherently good enough and there is something wrong with us. Articles, adverts and celebrity endorsements can leave us filled with self-doubt.

To live up to the media’s vision of success, we would need to be at a perfect weight, have perfect skin and the body of a 20 year old. We would be totally confident, fearless and successful at work and at home.

Apart from scanning popular health magazines to keep tabs on what is happening in the health industry for my work, I choose to read magazines that empower, inspire and help me grow. (Send me an email if you would like my recommendations).

When considering self-improvement, are you starting from a baseline of “I’m a failure and there’s something wrong with me?” If that's the case, try out this statement instead: “I am powerful and there is nothing wrong with me.”

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•    After reading a particular magazine, do you feel empowered or do you feel that you will never be enough or have enough?
•    Does the magazine encourage you to achieve your own goals in your own way? Or does it promise cookie cutter quick fixes that eventually fail? If it’s the latter, perhaps the magazine is at fault … not you!

I would love to hear your view on this!

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Guest - Freda Lacey on Friday, 06 November 2015 18:14

I do think that the media can make one feel bad about oneself, as I never feel like I will ever measure up. The other thing I've noticed with young girls/people is that even though they can be really active, fit, attractive, they too don't feel that they measure up well enough. If one is constantly comparing oneself and trying to "be" like girls/women seen as successful because they are slim and attractive and told "if you do this, you too can achieve/have, etc." then if you don't achieve this, it can send you into a pattern of low self-esteem, the "I'm never going to be good enough". That's why I rarely read magazines anymore. I'm choosing not to give air time to "I don't measure up".

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I do think that the media can make one feel bad about oneself, as I never feel like I will ever measure up. The other thing I've noticed with young girls/people is that even though they can be really active, fit, attractive, they too don't feel that they measure up well enough. If one is constantly comparing oneself and trying to "be" like girls/women seen as successful because they are slim and attractive and told "if you do this, you too can achieve/have, etc." then if you don't achieve this, it can send you into a pattern of low self-esteem, the "I'm never going to be good enough". That's why I rarely read magazines anymore. I'm choosing not to give air time to "I don't measure up".
Guest - Patricia on Saturday, 07 November 2015 17:17

Beautifully said Freda! Yes! Yes! Yes!

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Beautifully said Freda! Yes! Yes! Yes!